Traumatic experiences can come from events that leave a child feeling unsafe or vulnerable, such as verbal, physical, or sexual abuse; an unstable home or family situation; domestic violence; severe illness; bullying; or invasive medical procedures. The children of alcoholics are at an especially high risk for childhood trauma.
Research shows that these experiences can have long-term effects on a child’s mental health and behavior. They may lead to learning difficulties, substance use disorders, and other psychiatric problems in adolescence and adulthood.
The children of alcoholics are at an especially high risk for childhood trauma. A Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA) survey suggests that about one in 10 children in the United States have a parent who abuses alcohol at least some of the time.
These children develop a wide range of emotional issues due to their parents’ drinking habits, including guilt, anxiety, embarrassment, confusion, anger and depression. They also may be unable to form close relationships with other adults or children because they feel emotionally abandoned and unloved.
They may also avoid expressing their feelings for fear of upsetting their parents, leading to long-term emotional problems such as a phobia of conflict or a fear of being hurt. They may lie about their family life to keep others at a distance from them, or they might perform poorly in school because of a sense of shame.
The children of incarcerated parents are more likely to suffer from mental health problems, substance abuse, and sexually transmitted diseases than other children. This is because incarceration puts these kids at greater risk for childhood trauma.
Fortunately, much research suggests that children who grow up with strong relationships can overcome these challenges. Moreover, many of these children become resilient and develop positive life outcomes.
However, many families find that maintaining contact with their incarcerated parent can be a difficult challenge. Phone calls and prison visits can dent the family’s budget. The institution may even require specific contact lists that must be approved before contact can occur.
Children raised by single parents often suffer from several mental health issues. They may be more likely to experience problems in school and be less motivated than their two-parent counterparts.
In addition, children with a single parent tend to have lower self-esteem. This may lead them to have a greater inferiority complex than their peers, which can result in depression.
Childhood trauma has a profound impact on a child’s development, personal relationships and their health. It’s referred to as adverse childhood experiences (ACEs). It is linked to various long-term issues, including poor physical health, substance abuse, poor academic achievement, social maladjustment and violence.
Children who grow up with parents who neglect them are at the greatest risk for childhood trauma. Neglect can affect a child’s emotional well-being, affecting their self-esteem and ability to trust others.
Moreover, it can also contribute to chronic health problems and other developmental issues. It can sometimes lead to posttraumatic stress disorder, although the exact relationship between PTSD and child neglect has not been established.
The causes of neglect vary, including mental illness, substance abuse, unplanned pregnancy, domestic violence, and poverty. These factors increase the likelihood that a parent will not meet a child’s basic needs (feeding, health care, supervision, shelter, clothing and education).
Children who experience childhood trauma may have post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). PTSD can affect their social relationships and their ability to succeed in school.
They may re-experience the traumatic event through triggers such as sounds, smells or places and react in ways that are harmful to themselves or others. They may develop anxiety, depression, suicidal thoughts or substance abuse.
Physically abused children also suffer long-term health consequences, including brain damage, learning disabilities and poor immune system function.
Exposure to violence in the home can also impact the quality of parenting. Parents who experience domestic violence are more likely to have parenting problems, such as depression and post-traumatic stress disorder.